[Test] Father/Daughter Relationship

https://psychologies.co.uk/tests/what-kind-of-fatherdaughter-relationship-do-you-have.html

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The loving daughter
As far as you're concerned, your dad is the strongest, cleverest, handsomest dad of all. You're completely charmed and see him as representing what all men should be like. You'd do anything to gain his approval and retain his love. You really enjoy the time you spend together and his opinions are important to you. You try not to disappoint him, and even a minor reproach from him can have a profound effect on you. He's an important figure in your life who makes you feel strong and protected. You've got a lot invested in your relationship with your father — perhaps too much sometimes. You easily forgive his mistakes because you are eager not to ruin the perfect image you have of him. Be careful of playing princess to his king. These roles mean you can't express opposing opinions, rebel or get angry, because it would lead to guilt and feelings of rejection. Your need for love and approval from the father you are so fond of might even mean that relationships with other men are squeezed out. You might find it difficult to form relationships because the men you meet don't come up to scratch when compared with your dad. Try to express your own opinions without fear of reprisal, and distance yourself a little bit from him. Think about what you want from life and give up the idea that no one can replace your dad. It's not about replacing him; it's about finding the right man for you.

Best of friends
You see your dad as one of your mates — your best friend, even — and you share all your news with him. He's a precious ally and you operate on the same level. You're like two big kids who go off on carefree adventures. He doesn't seem like an adult who's 20 or 30 years your senior, because the link between you clears away any differences that might come about as a result of age or experience. He's like your alter ego and you seem to exist in your own world where you make the rules. You don't feel dutiful towards him, and he isn't an authority figure for you. But even this kind of relationship can have its down sides. You might be missing out on having friends you own age, and it's certainly no fun for your mother. You and your dad are a double act who force her into the role of sole parent. Your dad is shirking some of his parental responsibilities. He refuses to be the parent to say no to you or talk sense into you. He prefers to hang on to his privileged position. The problem is that you are his confidante, whereas it really should be his wife. This kind of relationship can also prevent you from taking on adult responsibilities or from committing yourself to someone else. To avoid these pitfalls, try to remember that everyone has their role to play. It doesn't mean you have to stop acting like your dad's accomplice, far from it. But you do need to remember from time to time that he is your dad, as well as a really good friend.



Well, almost.

The disappointed daughter
Your father might as well be a stranger you met in the street. It's a chilly relationship between the pair of you, and you are quite aware of this. You are distanced from each other and there is no strong tie. You probably need to grieve for the father you can't have and get on with finding the real you. You were, at least, given a certain amount of independence when you were growing up, and you have been able to get on with life despite the father-shaped gap. Yet this has also made you slightly distant with other people, especially men, who you always fear will disappoint you. You feel persistent regret at the fact that you have missed the chance to get to know your father. You started off with a negative image of him (perhaps encouraged by what your mother has said) but ended up blaming yourself, coming to the conclusion that you weren't worth his love. You think to yourself: if my own father's not even interested in me, what do I expect other men to see in me? Inside there is a little girl who doesn't understand where it all went wrong. Your father has failed to do his job and he doesn't know how to show his feelings towards you. Try and talk to him. Better late than never — it's still possible to form a bond. If you have already tried to contact him and have had no response try to build your self-esteem and remind yourself that not all men are like him. Plenty of them would relish the chance to get to know you… and love you too.

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The disappointed daughter
Your father might as well be a stranger you met in the street. It's a chilly relationship between the pair of you, and you are quite aware of this. You are distanced from each other and there is no strong tie. You probably need to grieve for the father you can't have and get on with finding the real you. You were, at least, given a certain amount of independence when you were growing up, and you have been able to get on with life despite the father-shaped gap. Yet this has also made you slightly distant with other people, especially men, who you always fear will disappoint you. You feel persistent regret at the fact that you have missed the chance to get to know your father. You started off with a negative image of him (perhaps encouraged by what your mother has said) but ended up blaming yourself, coming to the conclusion that you weren't worth his love. You think to yourself: if my own father's not even interested in me, what do I expect other men to see in me? Inside there is a little girl who doesn't understand where it all went wrong. Your father has failed to do his job and he doesn't know how to show his feelings towards you. Try and talk to him. Better late than never — it's still possible to form a bond. If you have already tried to contact him and have had no response try to build your self-esteem and remind yourself that not all men are like him. Plenty of them would relish the chance to get to know you… and love you too.

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